Counseling Services In Riverside, California

I Know It Can Feel Overwhelming

When Your Relationship Is In Trouble!

I imagine you probably have a lot of mixed feelings right now. At a time like this, it can be hard to know which way to turn. One minute you may feel pretty hopeful- like things are going to get better. But the next minute may find your spirits spiraling down into hopelessness and pain. Unfortunately, that's what troubled relationships seem to do to us. Our spirits become broken.

And as social beings our desire for love runs very deep. Without that feeling of love in our lives, our hearts are filled with pain - instead of the good feelings we want and deserve.

The Questions You Need Answered Right Now Are:

1. Is There Any Real Hope For My Relationship?

2. What Can I do Immediately To Get My

Relationship Back On Track?

My experience working with couples has taught me that the majority of couples can turn their relationship around for the better. Time and time again, I find that couples have simply waited too long to seek the help they so desperately need. By the time they come in to work with me, both feel pretty concerned - and tired! But once they reach out and take that first difficult step of asking for help, a burden is lifted and the opportunity for a satisfying relationship is possible.

It's sad that so many couples suffer for such a long time, in a relationship that could be improved - sometimes, right away! And there are times when the improvements are quite dramatic.

For Some Couples, Changes Happen Very Quickly.

For Others, It Takes More Time.

Much of the progress you make depends on how open your heart is - and your willingness to explore and start practicing different ways of approaching your relationship with your partner. In other words, what your level of motivation is and how much you really care about saving your relationship from a breakup.

The question is: Will you continue to do the same things, in the same ways and get the same results? Or will you be open and willing to learn new skills for relationship success? That is a question you must answer honestly for yourself.

So What Steps You Can Take Right Now?

1. Listen to the free "Send Love To Your Relationship" meditation audio HERE to help you focus on the positive.

2. Turn the volume down on disagreements. When a

disagreement starts to get heated - make a caring remark, take a break and cool off, change the topic, say you're sorry, let it go.

3. Watch your negative comments. Avoid saying hurtful things to your partner. Words do hurt, they can't be taken back, and they are not easily forgotten. Negative comments leave scars on our heart.

4. Begin couples counseling and avoid living in distress another day longer! A customized relationship plan that fits your unique situation can be developed after the relationship assessement is completed during the first session. Please feel free to call me with any questions you may have, or to schedule an appointment (951) 776-7086

Wishing you a loving

relationship in your future,